We all go through life knowing that someday we won’t be here forever. I’m not afraid of dying and see it as a natural part of life. But what does worry me is growing old and not being able to take care of myself. The idea of relying on a hospice nurse makes me a bit anxious.
The thought of needing help with everything, being unable to do simple things on my own, and forgetting my loved ones’ names scares me. It’s not the kind of life I’d want. This fear reminds me of Maria, a music teacher who was cared for by a hospice nurse in 2016.
One night, as I was leaving at the end of my shift, I said ‘Goodnight, Irene.’ Then I asked her if she knew the song ‘Goodnight, Irene,’ and I sang a little bit of it. She looked at me and smiled,” Berg said. “For someone who didn’t usually talk much with the nurses, that smile meant a lot, and I knew I had made a connection with her.”As Rosipajla’s health got worse, it was decided to move her from the hospital to hospice care. “The last time I took care of Irene, I wanted to do something kind for her and her family, so I brought my guitar,” said Berg, who had studied music in college. “I sang ‘Goodnight, Irene,’ and it was a really special moment. I was nervous about singing in front of someone, but when I started playing and singing, she was so focused, and her family was really touched.”
Michelle Naypauer, Irene Rosipajla’s daughter-in-law who saw her as a mother, was in the room and moved to tears. “Irene was a wonderful person who treated me like a daughter,” Naypauer said. “In the last few months, Irene was in and out of the hospital, and we got to know Annamarie well.”
“Before the song, Annamarie had already done some great things. Our middle son, Eric, got married in August, and Annamarie helped set up FaceTime so Mom could be at the reception bridal table. It was beautiful,” Naypauer shared.
Naypauer, who recorded Annamarie singing to Irene, wanted to capture the special moment to share with the family. “There were so many tears, and it was just so beautiful,” she said. The song was a heartfelt farewell to Irene, who passed away a few weeks later at home, surrounded by her family.
Watch Joshua sing to Maria while she was in his carehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGFRHyt1sFQ
1. “Maria is dying. Then carer takes something out of his pocket and fulfills her last wish..” Newsner. Norhan Elhakeem. October 26, 2017
2. “Nurse sings to patient moving to hospice care in touching moment.” ABC News. Haley Yamada. March 2, 2020.
The cow began to lose milk, and the farmer noticed that she was leaving in the evening for the forest. He decided to follow
Steve, a farmer from Scotland, kept a small herd of dairy cows. The man saw one day that Lila, who was normally the one who gave the most milk, was completely out of milk. After receiving assurances from the veterinarian that the animal was healthy, the farmer chose to examine the cow more closely in the meadow along the forest’s border. He quickly discovered that the cow occasionally ventures into the forest in the evening and made the decision to follow her. Every time, the farmer brought the cows to graze in a clearing close to the forest. The man noticed that Leela was falling behind the group and decided to pursue her. He moved cautiously, not wanting to scare the animal away, and eventually he arrived at a clearing surrounded by trees. The cow positioned herself a little bit farther away, hiding something.
Steve approached and noticed a tiny calf. Lila appears to have taken it to the clearing a few weeks prior, perhaps in an attempt to conceal it from view. The farmer needed roughly ten minutes to figure out why this was happening. Every calf that we remove is raised apart from the adults before being moved to a new herd.
Steve told reporters that it appeared Leela was not pleased with how things were going. Consequently, the cow was left with the calf. Steve chose to reconsider how he was going to manage the farm.
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