Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried for years to have a baby, using every method they could think of. They eventually accepted that they might only ever be an aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they got a text that changed their lives completely.
The couple had been trying to get pregnant since they got married in January 2018, but when it didn’t happen on its own, they tried everything else.
“We used ovulation tests, took prenatal vitamins, tracked cycles with apps, and used fertility monitors,” the Houston mom told Love What Matters.
“We even tried advice from friends, family, and strangers. For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, it was always a negative pregnancy test. It seemed like we might need help to conceive, so we even talked to doctors about it.”
Doctors didn’t offer much help to the couple. They mostly told Sadie to lose weight to improve her chances of getting pregnant. With no other advice, she had gastric surgery and lost 28 pounds.
Sadie’s OBGYN was excited about the weight loss and praised her for it.
“She told me that if I wasn’t pregnant within six months, she would refer me to a fertility specialist because she couldn’t prescribe fertility medication herself,” Sadie said. “I was thrilled! We finally got a positive step forward, even if it wasn’t immediate. We were excited about the progress.”
Unfortunately, the couple didn’t get pregnant after Sadie lost the weight, and they felt like they were back where they started.
“I always felt like I was meant to be a mother,” Sadie said. “Even though my surgeon warned me that I’d be very fertile after the surgery, I still wasn’t getting pregnant. So, we gave up and accepted that we might just be aunt and uncle to our nieces and godparents to our goddaughters.”
Just when the couple had decided to stop trying to have a baby, Sadie got a text from a friend asking if they would think about fostering a baby from a couple she knew.
At first, the couple was hesitant because they were told by a caseworker to take care of the baby while the birth mom was getting treatment. They worried they might get too attached. But then, the situation changed.
“The birth mom has decided she wants you to adopt the baby instead,” the caseworker said.
Sadie remembered saying, “‘Holy crap!!’ out loud when she found out she was going to be a mom.
“We went from having no kids to possibly fostering one, to suddenly being told, ‘You’re going to be parents!’ I was still in shock as I listened to the caseworker. I hung up and called my husband, shouting, ‘Babe!! They want us to adopt the baby! We’re going to be parents!’ He said, ‘Wait! REALLY?! I thought they just wanted us to foster him!’ I told him, ‘Nope! They want us to be his mom and dad.’”
The couple spent the weekend trying to take in the shocking news and getting ready, just in case the birth mom changed her mind.
By Monday, they were not only told that the birth mom still wanted them to adopt the baby, but she also wanted to do an independent adoption and was ready to sign the papers that day.
Their baby boy was born at just 33 weeks, which is seven weeks early. He weighed 4 lbs. 5 oz. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie wrote.
“He was wrapped in a white blanket with pink and blue stripes,” Sadie said. “He had a small tube coming out of his nose because he couldn’t eat on his own since he was born early. But he was so cute!!!”
The couple shared their news on social media and were encouraged to create a registry. They listed 72 items, and within just three days, 55 of them were already bought for them.
Ezra Lee’s adoption was finalized in October 2020, and the couple had adorable family photos taken, all wearing t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. True to their family motto, “Families don’t have to match,” the Black couple now has three white children – a boy and two girls.
For anyone who might judge their beautiful family, they have just one response: their family is built on the strongest foundation ever – love.
Kelly Ripa, 53, Displays Her Figure as She Rocks Sheer Black Gown, Igniting Reactions from Fans
Recently, Mark Consuelos and Kelly Ripa attracted attention on the Oscars red carpet. Some people believed their look at the awards ceremony was subpar, while others thought it was excellent. Supporters posted their opinions on social media.
At the recent Oscars, Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos captivated the show with their stunning display of elegance and beauty. In a picture that went viral on Instagram, Ripa showed off her body in a Jason Wu translucent black gown that was perfectly styled by Audrey Slater and exquisitely beaded. In a traditional tuxedo, Consuelos stood erect at her side and radiated elegance. A personal touch was provided by Ripa’s lighthearted caption, “Mom and dad storming the red carpet.”
A wide range of emotions were expressed in response to Ripa’s wardrobe decision, reflecting the varied sentiments of her sizable fan base. Some admirers expressed their gratitude with remarks like “OMG!!! That dress!!!” and “Kelly, your hair, the dress… you look stunning,” emphasizing how well-liked her appearance was.
Some gave insightful criticism or personal remarks, such as the direct “I love you Kelly but not this dress.” However, it was evident that Ripa’s ability to shine through was widely acknowledged by her audience, as evidenced by the compliment, “Kelly, you especially shine through in that beautiful dress.”
Ripa, who is well-known for her dedication to health and fitness, has never hidden how important exercise is to her. “I’m glad for those who don’t have to work out, but I have to work out because of my body type,” the woman said. Her exercise program consists of a combination of running, SoulCycle, and dance-cardio class AKT. She states that these activities are essential for both her physical and emotional well-being. She has even spent more than a decade working with her personal trainer.
Beyond the gym, Ripa takes a holistic approach to health, emphasizing diet, which has had a significant impact on her life. She believes that maintaining a high-alkaline diet keeps her pain-free and full of energy. Ripa shows a practical and long-lasting approach to health and fitness by balancing her indulgences—such as wine and coffee—with periods of severe commitment to her diet.
At home, Ripa’s culinary explorations infuse her family’s life with humility and comedy. Her family and friends appreciate the delight and work she puts into her meals, even though she freely admits that she is not a great chef.
The Ripa-Consuelos family has good taste in fashion, which is evident in their daughter Lola Consuelos, whose distinct look gives her parents amusement as well as pride. Even though Ripa and Consuelos are fashion icons in their own right, they jokingly admit that Lola is solely responsible for her sense of style. This often leaves them in awe of her natural elegance and occasionally makes them doubt their own sense of style.
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