I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
The Superstar Asks A Little Girl To Sing “You Raise Me Up”. Seconds Later, I Can’t Believe My Eyes
The iconic performer’s audacious leap of faith will go down in entertainment history books.
All eyes were on the star in the limelight as the stage was prepared and the audience buzzed with excitement.
The superstar decided to share the spotlight with a naive, innocent little girl, and it was worth it!
The superstar reached out a welcoming hand to the young prodigy, whose pure charisma was ready to electrify the whole stadium, and a smile spread across their face as they did so.
With a mix of anticipation and anxiety, the girl cautiously made her way to the center of the stage, where soft applause shut the audience’s whispers.
Standing there for a split second, the young girl took in the bizarre reality of the scenario, microphone in hand.
The celebrity, seeing promise in this modest ability, filled the room with a feeling of unity. The superstar then encouraged the girl to show the world her talent.
All of the hearts in the room were surprised by her voice—her purity and its force. Beaming with delight, the superstar observed as the small child turned the stage into a magical playground.
A symphony of adoration resounded throughout the venue as the once-mute whispers rose to a crescendo of resounding ovation.
The girl’s voice was a surprising emotional power that shocked the crowd and kept their undivided attention. With every second, the small superstar not only met but surpassed every expectation, as each lyric she sung echoed through the hall.
Unexpectedly, the superstars found themselves sharing the limelight not merely as a gesture of kindness but also to recognize a rising star who had recently made her grand entrance into the world of show showbiz.
The audience’s reaction to the sudden display of genius was so moving that the applause eventually rose to a standing ovation.
A young girl, escorted by the famous star, brought the house down in the span of a few minutes, touching the lives of all who were there to hear it.
The remarkable impact of a superstar’s decision to share their stage with an aspiring performer, regardless of their age, was on full display, demonstrating the power of talent to change lives and the beauty of the moment.
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