Calling someone “fat” can be a hurtful insult. But why is that?
This question came up when a mother named Allison shared her story about a recent swimming trip with her children. When her daughter called her fat, 30-year-old Allison had a clever response, and her message is now spreading quickly online.
Allison Kimmey began dieting when she was just 14 years old. She managed to stay at a size two to four through graduate school, but it was tough, and she wasn’t happy. Three years ago, at age 27, Allison reached a size eight and realized she would be much happier if she stopped fighting against her weight gain.
To motivate herself, Allison started an Instagram account, @allisonkimmey, where she shares pictures and inspirational messages. Her body positivity spreads joy and encourages her followers, but her important message doesn’t always reach everyone.
**Me:** “Actually, everyone, every single person in the world has fat. But each of us has different amounts.”
**Her brother:** “Oh right! I have some to protect my big muscles! But you have more than me.”
**Me:** “Yes, that’s true. Some people have a lot, and others don’t have much. But that doesn’t mean one person is better than the other. Do you both understand?”
**Both:** “Yes, mama.”
**Me:** “So can you repeat what I said?”
**Them:** “Yes! I shouldn’t say someone is fat because you can’t just be fat, but everyone HAS fat, and it’s okay to have different fat.”
**Me:** “Exactly right!”
Not only did Allison want to teach her children how to talk to others, but she also felt it was important to spread the message that everyone is equal, no matter their body shape. Now, her post on Instagram has gone viral.
“If I shame my children for saying it, then I’m proving that it’s an insulting word and continuing the stigma that being fat is unworthy, gross, comical, and undesirable,” writes Allison.
“No wonder Ronaldo fell in love with her!” New photos of Georgina Rodriguez are heating up emotions on social media
Cristiano Ronaldo is undoubtedly one of the wealthiest, most successful and most iconic football players in the world. In addition to his impressive sports career, he also enjoys a fulfilling family life with an enchanting partner and lovely children.
For those who don’t know, the couple first met in a store where she was working as a saleswoman.
Their love sparked immediately, and the connection between them was palpable from the start. Despite giving birth to several children, Rodriguez has maintained her impressive figure. It’s hard to believe that after five births you can still look so stunning. You could say she perfectly represents the image of a billionaire’s stylish partner.
“No wonder he adores her,” “It seems like she’s constantly coming out of a beauty salon,” “Who knew she gave birth to five children?”, “Flawless from head to toe,” “That is the picture of a happy woman”.
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