Although the real-life outlaws Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid were close, actor Paul Newman admitted that he harbored some grudges against the young Robert Redford throughout the period of filming.
A true testament to their acting prowess, Redford as Harry Longabaugh, aka “Sundance Kid,” and Newman as Robert LeRoy Parker, aka “Butch Cassidy,” were convincing in their portrayals of the Wild West friends, notorious criminals who were eluding the law after a string of bank and train robberies.
The 1969 film, which was based on the actual outlaws, won four Oscars and is still regarded as one of the best Westerns ever produced. Four years later, in The Sting (1973), another caper movie starring two similarly attractive heartthrobs, the stars reunited.
Legends in their own right, Newman and Redford worked their magic when they were together. However, have you ever wondered how Hollywood’s A-listers get along away from the camera?When he was 44 years old, Newman, who portrayed Butch, admitted that he had been interested in the 33-year-old Redford’s 33-year-old character.
In a BBC Talking Pictures interview, Newman noted, “We have a lot of fun together, and we bounce off each other really well.” I would have wanted to play Sundance, he continued. With that cooled-out quality, I feel a little more at ease. It must be the simpler part, I suppose.
Redford was a budding star who won the Golden Globe for New Star of the Year in 1965 for his work with Natalie Wood in the movie Inside Daisy Clover.
After appearing in movies like Cool Hand Luke (1967) and Cat on a Hot Tin Roof (1958) with Elizabeth Taylor, Newman had already achieved superstardom.
Redford was cast opposite Newman, who was winning acting and directing accolades, in Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid after Steve McQueen turned down a role in the film. McQueen also declined parts in Dirty Harry, The French Connection, and One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest.
The two celebrities weren’t truly friends at the time, according to Newman’s memoir, “The Extraordinary Life of an Ordinary Man: A Memoir,” the BBC reports.
Newman said, “You can’t depend on Redford. You’re never sure he’s going to be there. That’s simply discourteous.”
Their differences in working styles, according to Newman’s youngest daughter Claire Newman Soderlund, whom he fathered with his second wife Joanne Woodward, may have contributed to their conflicts.
She said, “My father was very much a stickler for timeliness and Bob, that was never really his strength. It was hard work for dad. He worked very hard at it because he wanted to be good and he wanted to be successful and Bob was more of a free spirit.”
When Newman passed away from lung cancer in 2008, Redford, who is now 86, told ABC News that, “It was just that connection of playing those characters and the fun of it that really began the relationship,” he said, reflecting on Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid. “And then once the film started, once we went forward, we then discovered other similarities that just multiplied over time, a common ground that we both had between us, interests and so forth, and differences.”
Newman and Redford looked into possibilities to collaborate on a third movie after portraying renowned outlaws and later thieves in The Sting, but it never materialized.
In Bill Bryson’s 1998 book of the same name, A Walk in the Woods, which was adapted into a 2015 movie, it almost happened. The plot of this buddy movie centers on two elderly guys who are out of shape and want to hike the challenging Appalachian Trail.
In 2005, Redford, who both appeared in and produced the movie, chose this script with his close friend Newman in mind.
In 2015, Redford said, “It started with Paul, because Paul and I had been looking for a third film to do together. A lot of time had gone by, and I just couldn’t find it. When I read this book… I thought of Paul right away.”
Redford, who was 79 at the time of the interview, claimed that he sent the book to Newman, who later cast Nick Nolte in the part because he wasn’t sure he could do it physically.
Since they initially worked together on Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, the relationship between Newman and Redford, two highly regarded performers, has significantly deepened. The performers, who lived in Connecticut just a mile apart and started to act like brothers, are also close with their families.
Speaking after his buddy died, Redford said, “We both got to know each other’s flaws pretty well. Of course, I outweighed him on that front. But knowing each other’s flaws, we just played them to the hilt and we’d try to trick each other. We’d try to surprise each other, and it was so damn much fun that it became like–it became like a scenario unto itself.”
He added, “Paul really likes to have fun and he loves to laugh and he really especially loves to laugh at his own jokes, and some of them are just really awful. So the fact that he enjoyed them so much, you forget about the joke and you’d start to laugh with him because you’re so caught up in his enjoyment of them.”
Paul Newman and Robert Redford had such a great chemistry! Let us know what you think of their on-screen friendship and real-life romance!
My 5-Year-Old Wants to Invite ‘The Lady Who Visits Dad While Mom’s at Work’ to Her Birthday Party
When I asked my daughter who else she wanted to invite to her birthday party and she casually named a woman I’d never heard of, I felt my world tilt. I met the woman a week later, and my life would never be the same.
My husband, Jake, and I have been together for ten years, married for seven. He’s a great guy—kind, hardworking, and a little scatterbrained, but I never had any reason to doubt him until recently.
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Earlier this year, Jake lost his job. While he’s been job hunting, I’ve been pulling long, full-time hours at work to keep things running smoothly. It’s been tough, but we’ve made it work. Our five-year-old daughter, Ellie, loves spending extra time with him.
To her, Jake is her hero.
Life seemed normal enough… until last week.
Ellie’s birthday was coming up, and we were in full planning mode. As I sat with her one evening to finish the guest list, she caught me completely off guard.
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I asked her to tell me who else she wanted to invite besides her friends and family members.
“Mommy, can I invite the pretty lady who comes to visit Daddy while you’re at work?” she asked.
I froze mid-sip of my coffee, trying to stay calm. “The pretty lady who visits Daddy? What lady, sweetie?”
Ellie grinned, completely oblivious to the storm brewing in my chest.
“Yeah, the one with the long hair! She’s so nice! She says Daddy is kind, and she always gives him a big hug when she leaves. Can she come? Please?”
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I struggled to keep my voice steady despite my heart sinking.
“Sure, honey. Why don’t you invite her next time she’s here?”
Ellie beamed. “Okay! I will! Thanks, Mommy!”
That night, I barely slept. My mind swirled with questions, doubts, and a growing unease. Jake had never given me a reason to doubt him before, but Ellie’s innocent comment planted seeds of suspicion. Who was this “pretty lady”? A friend? A neighbor? Or worse, someone I had never even heard of?
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I also contemplated that my five-year-old might be imagining things, even though this did seem a bit extreme to have been made up. I decided not to confront my husband, and I made sure the stranger came to Ellie’s party because I wanted to see how things would play out.
The next evening, I decided to get more information. Over dinner, while my husband went to the bathroom, I casually asked Ellie, “Did you invite the pretty lady to your party?”
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“Yep! She said she’d come for sure!” Ellie chirped, happily munching on her cereal.
I nearly dropped my glass of water, but by the time my husband returned, we’d moved on to a different conversation. I didn’t want him to find out about his secret guest and prevent us from meeting.
The day of the party arrived, and I was a bundle of nerves. The party started like any other, with friends and family filling our living room, kids running around with balloons, and Ellie over the moon. I tried to stay focused on hosting, but my eyes kept darting to the front door, half-expecting the mysterious visitor to show up.
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An hour into the party, the doorbell rang. My stomach dropped. Jake was in the backyard helping Ellie with her cake, so I went to answer it. Standing on the porch was a young woman, maybe in her early twenties.
She had long dark hair and a shy smile, and she held a small gift bag in her hands.
“Hi, I’m Lila,” she said softly. “I’m here for Ellie’s party.”
Ellie came running to the door at that very moment, her face lighting up.
“It’s her! Mommy, it’s her! Daddy’s friend!”
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I stood frozen, trying to piece together what I was seeing, but managed to stammer out, “Oh! Uh… please come in.”
Ellie grabbed the woman’s hand and pulled her inside. She dragged Lila over to Jake, who went pale the second he saw her. He opened his mouth, closed it, and then sighed like a man walking to his doom.
“Lila,” he said, his voice low and uneasy. “I didn’t… I didn’t think you’d actually come.”
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“We need to talk,” I said, trying to keep my voice calm but firm. Jake nodded, clearly defeated, and led Lila and me into the kitchen, away from the chaos.
“Lee, please go play with your new toys with your school friends and cousins,” I dismissed our daughter to the backyard.
“Come on, Chantal! I’ll show you my new toys!” Ellie said, grabbing the hand of a little girl standing close by eating an ice cream cone. Meanwhile, the young woman looked awkward and out of place but followed Jake and me into the kitchen.
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The tension in the air was thick as Lila nervously fidgeted with the gift bag.
“I didn’t mean to cause trouble,” she began. “I just thought it would be nice to meet everyone, and Ellie invited me.”
“Who are you exactly?” I asked, my voice sharp despite my attempt to stay composed.
Lila glanced at Jake, who looked like he wanted to disappear. “I’m… Jake’s daughter.”
The words hit me like a freight train. “What?”
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Lila tried explaining everything while my husband looked like he wanted to disappear into the floor. But when he finally spoke, his voice was barely above a whisper.
“Lila’s my daughter from before I met you. I didn’t know about her until a few months ago. Her mom never told me or her. Before she passed away earlier this year, she told Lila about me, and she tracked me and found me a few months ago. She introduced herself while you were at work. She wanted to meet her dad.”
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“When she told me who she was, I didn’t believe her at first,” Jake admitted, looking sheepish. “I mean, it came out of nowhere. So I… I asked her for a DNA test.”
Lila nodded and showed me a copy of the paternity papers via her email.
“I understood his need for proof. It wasn’t easy to hear, but I brought a test when I came back the next time, and it’s true, he’s my dad,” she replied.
I scanned the document, my hands trembling. It was undeniable. I stared at him, stunned. “And you didn’t think to tell me?”
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“I didn’t know how,” he admitted, rubbing the back of his neck. “I was still processing it myself. I didn’t want to drop this on you until I was sure… or at least thought things through.”
“Okay,” I said, trying to steady my breathing. “But why does Ellie know about her?”
Jake looked sheepish. “Lila’s been visiting while you’re at work. She wanted to get to know the family, and Ellie… well, Ellie’s Ellie. She loves everyone.”
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“So your plan was to just… not tell me? Let a five-year-old do it for you?” I asked, my voice rising.
Jake flinched. “I know. I messed up. I just didn’t want to make things harder for you.”
Lila stepped forward, her eyes pleading.
“I’m really sorry. I never meant to cause problems. I just wanted to meet my dad and his family. Your daughter is such a sweet kid. She even showed me her drawings.”
“It’s okay, Lila. You can go join the party. Jake and I will wrap things up.”
A woman at a birthday party | Source: Midjourney
I sighed, overwhelmed but starting to see the bigger picture. Lila wasn’t some “other woman.” She was a young woman searching for family after losing her mom. And Jake, for all his flaws, was just trying to navigate a situation he’d never anticipated.
During our long conversation, the three of us had talked for what felt like hours. Lila shared stories about her life, her mom, and how she found Jake. My husband apologized profusely and repeatedly for keeping it from me, promising to be more open in the future. By the end of it, I still had a million feelings to sort through, but I could see their sincerity.
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When my husband and I finally rejoined the party, Ellie was sitting with Lila, showing her a drawing she made of our family. She’d even added Lila, labeling her as “Big Sister.” My husband slipped an arm around my shoulders.
“I know this wasn’t how you imagined today would go,” he said quietly. “But I hope we can figure this out together.”
I nodded, leaning into him. “We will. But no more secrets, Jake.”
“Never again,” he promised.
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In the weeks that followed, we began adjusting to our new reality. Lila, who had just started college in our city, became a regular visitor. Ellie adored her, and slowly, so did I. It wasn’t easy, but I could see how much Lila wanted to be part of our lives.
And honestly? It was starting to feel like she always had been. Meanwhile, Jake learned the hard way that secrets have a way of coming out, especially when a five-year-old is involved.
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Ellie got her wish for her birthday, and in a way, so did we: a new, unexpected addition to our family. Sometimes life surprises you, and while it’s not always easy, it can lead to something beautiful.
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If you enjoyed the story, then you’ll love this one about a wife whose husband also hid a female stranger and someone else from her. When the woman discovered the truth, she couldn’t believe what she saw in her own house!
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