Introducing Mark Bryan, a fashion-forward robotics engineer who is making waves and upending conventional wisdom. Bryan, who has been married for eleven years and is a loving parent, defies stereotypes by dressing in what many would consider unusual clothing. Bryan, an American living in Germany, freely wears heels and skirts, stating that gender norms shouldn’t apply to fashion.
You might wonder, why? Bryan, on the other hand, thinks that men’s fashion—particularly office wear—is very boring, consisting only of dark blues, grays, and blacks with the occasional pinstripe. Is there any passion in that? Conversely, skirts provide an array of designs, patterns, and hues – a veritable rainbow of outfit options!
Bryan embraces a fashion trend that combines parts of the traditionally masculine and feminine, teaming ties and blazers with pencil skirts and four-inch heels. It’s his method of demonstrating the genderlessness of clothing. In addition, when his girlfriend wanted a dancing partner who could match her eye level back in college, he taught her how to walk in heels. After a whole year of preparation, he has been strutting with confidence ever since!
Bryan’s unrepentant attitude disregarded social norms. He dresses in ways that bring him joy while defying conventions. What he says about it is as follows:
Clothes are genderless in my opinion. I like skirts more than dresses. I can’t mix the genders with dresses. Above the waist, I like to look “masculine,” and below the waist, I like to look non-gendered. It’s all about the genderlessness of clothing.
Bryan recalls an era when girls were not supposed to wear pants to school. Pants are now gender neutral. Why not heels and skirts then? Furthermore, males have worn heels in the past. The Persian cavalry of the tenth century, who wore galesh or kalash boots to keep their feet in stirrups, are credited with the invention of high heels. Later, wearing high heels—even by popes—became a status signal for European royalty.
The 18th century saw the emergence of a gender gap in fashion, which Bryan is now challenging, as a result of ridiculous cultural concerns that declared fashion to be a frivolous issue unworthy of “real men.”
Bryan admits that his fashion choices could cause people to double take, even though he advocates for guys to wear high heels. However, he compares the response to seeing someone with vivid green hair, which seems strange at first but eventually becomes just another feature of that individual.
“Leave a person with vivid green hair behind. Green hair is not typical. You glance up and notice someone, and your brain immediately identifies them as having green hair. You may find that strange or intriguing, but you quickly move on to your previous task without giving it any more attention. I think people react the same way when they see me wearing heels and a skirt.
Bryan finds it easy to find heels and skirts that fit. He has a lot of alternatives because he has size 8.5 feet and a size 8 skirt. He advises men who want to wear heels to start low and work their way up to a comfortable level.
What are your thoughts on Mark Bryan’s wardrobe selections? Would a man you know try wearing high heels? Talk about this with your loved ones and friends and let’s start a dialogue!
Harold lived alone, and one night, he was startled awake by the sound of clanging metal coming from his garage…
The garage lights flickered to life, illuminating the scene before Harold. Dust motes danced in the single beam, revealing three figures scrambling to their feet. They wore identical black hoodies, their faces obscured in the shadows.
“Hey! Get outta here!” Harold shouted, his voice surprisingly steady.
The intruders, startled, reacted like startled cats. Two of them bolted towards the garage door, disappearing into the darkness of the night. But the third, taller than the others, tripped over a discarded tire, tumbling to the concrete floor.
Harold, adrenaline coursing through his veins, moved towards the fallen figure. He grabbed the young man’s arm, intending to pull him to his feet. But as the hood fell back, revealing the intruder’s face, Harold froze.
It was Billy.
Billy, his neighbor’s son. Billy, the boy he’d often seen tinkering with his own beat-up old truck, the boy he’d sometimes offered advice to, a friendly nod and a wave. Billy, whose face was now contorted in a mixture of fear and pain.
Harold quickly released his grip. “Billy?” he stammered, disbelief washing over him.
Billy, still sprawled on the floor, looked up at him, his eyes wide with terror. “Mr. Davis… I… I’m so sorry.”
Harold knelt beside him, his mind reeling. What was Billy doing here? Why was he trying to steal his car?
“What… what are you doing, Billy?” Harold asked, his voice trembling.
Billy hesitated, his eyes darting nervously around the garage. “I… I needed the money,” he mumbled, his voice barely audible. “My mom… she’s sick. The bills are piling up. I… I didn’t know what else to do.”
Harold felt a surge of sympathy, a wave of understanding washing over him. He knew Billy’s family wasn’t well-off. His mother, a single parent, struggled to make ends meet.
“Billy,” Harold said gently, “you shouldn’t have done this. There are other ways to get help.”
Billy looked down at his hands, shamefaced. “I know, Mr. Davis. I’m so sorry. I’ll never do anything like this again.”
Harold sighed. He knew how desperate times could drive people to do desperate things. He remembered a time, long ago, when he had faced his own share of hardships.
“Get up,” Harold said, helping Billy to his feet. “Let’s go inside. We need to talk.”
As they walked towards the house, Harold felt a strange sense of responsibility. He couldn’t simply turn Billy over to the police. He couldn’t let this promising young man throw his life away.
He had to help him.
The next morning, Harold contacted a local social worker. He explained the situation, omitting the attempted theft, focusing instead on Billy’s family’s financial difficulties. The social worker, a kind woman with a gentle demeanor, listened patiently and promised to look into the matter.
Over the next few weeks, Harold kept a close eye on Billy. He offered him odd jobs around the house, helping him earn some extra money. He also spent time talking to him, offering words of encouragement and guidance.
Slowly, things started to improve. Billy found a part-time job at a local mechanic shop, and his mother received assistance from social services. The fear and desperation that had clouded Billy’s eyes began to fade, replaced by a glimmer of hope.
Harold knew he couldn’t erase the past, but he hoped he could help Billy find a better future. He had learned a valuable lesson that night: sometimes, the most unexpected encounters can lead to the most profound connections. And sometimes, the greatest strength lies not in punishment, but in compassion and understanding.
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